Just like moons and like suns,
With the certainty of tides,
Just like hopes springing high,
Still I’ll rise.
By Maya Angelou
I am painfully aware that Maya Angelou’s poem is all about the African-American Civil Rights struggle, and would never want to fall in the trap of cultural appropriation to make a point, after all I have not had my dignity and rights as a human being thrashed or denied … nevertheless her words resonate so much with me as a woman, the defiance, ever rising against adversity and so the reason for the quote.
My blogging has diminished as my living in the real world has increased… a lot has happened since my last post, some events I am happy to report here, others will have to wait a little before they make it to the blogosphere.
Firstly, I am aware that I kept quiet a very serious event which took place on 11 November 2016; it has taken me all this time to process what really happened and to absorb it. So now I am ready to talk about it more openly. I ran 10 Miles for Neuroendocrine Cancer on 10 November 2016; as it turned out I got lost at the beginning of the run and ended up running a half-marathon instead. I felt great at the end of my run as I had a lot of support from friends, people from the three charities I was fundraising for and staff at Poole Hospital. I finished the day on a high. Nevertheless early in the morning of 11 November I woke up in excruciating pain and was rushed to hospital with a suspected bowel obstruction, which after five days of investigations, tests and scans turned out to be a perforated small intestine. Thankfully the consultants and nurses at Poole Hospital were amazing and took care of me with expertise and kindness. I was looked after by the Intensive Care Unit and after a total stay of 15 days I was home recovering from the second major surgery in six months. Needless to say this was too much for my body to handle and I have only begun to feel myself again in the last couple of months.
I also had some of my closest friends step in and step up to support me and my children (and the dog) in what were really traumatic circumstances. I am forever grateful for their generosity in time and effort as well as their love for us.
According to my consultant, what happened to me was just sheer bad luck, in no way linked to running, unpredictable and unpreventable.
There are unpleasant side-effects to this latest surgery, some psychologycal, others physical, all manageable but not without challenge. I continue to see a counsellor on a regular basis as I have been doing for the last four years. She is a very supportive, professional and intiuitve woman, who by now knows me so well that all I have to do is enter the room and she can guess my mood without me uttering a single word. She’s a treasure to me.
So a little over six months I am running regularly again, getting faster and actually enjoying it. Today I set a new PB (personal best for the non-runners) at my local parkrun of 26:39. I am absolutely delighted to say the least as only in my wildest dreams did I ever imagine runing 5Km this fast.
In the meantime, my children continue to delight and surprise me with their maturity, their kindess and ability to just go with the flow.
Eldest daughter is in the middle of her final exams…. complete social media blackout, I keep sending her the most positive of my thoughts and energy which I hope go a little way in helping her get through this latest stage of her studies.
My son is now a fully fledged army cadet, an activity he is relishing and taking on with gusto. Company weekends seem to be a favourite where he gets to experience life as a soldier, scrubbing floors! Yes he can and knows how to, can I get him to do it at home? You guessed right, nope! Nevertheless, I am pleased to report that the experience is having a positive impact on him as his bedroom is permanently (mostly) tidy.
Youngest daughter is a happy go lucky girl, enjoying school life, with the usual moans about how lessons are soooo boring. She however managed to fracture her right arm whilst playing rough at school; a very painful experience for her and a very stressful episode for me as it happened just two days before we were due to fly out to Italy for a short break.
We were fortunate to visit Oslo, Norway for the Easter holidays and Lippiano (Umbria), Italy for a long weekend at the end of April beginning of May. Both amazing and unique experiences which I’d recommend anyone to do.
In Oslo, amongst many things we learnt how far the Vikings really did travel, all the way to India bringing Buddhism back to Scandinavia, visited the Kon-Tiki museum, learnt about Edward Munch‘s life and what lead him to paint the Scream and were truly humbled by the stories of all the Nobel Peace Prize winners.
Lippiano on the other hand was a more relaxed and nourishing experience; we stayed in Villa Pia a beautiful house on the border of Umbria and Tuscany, surrounded by the most spectacular scenery, with delicious food and coffee served throughout the day, helpful and caring staff and a beauty therapist (Maria Giovanna) who gave me the most amazing massage. HIghly recommended.
In other news, I have started to do some renovating work to the house, which after nearly five years of neglect really needs it, decluttering, new windows, painting, garden reorganisation, the list is long but I am determined to get through it to make sure I add value to the biggest asset I am likely to pass on to my children.
I continue to face the prospect of further invasive treatment to deal wih the remaining tumours in my liver. At present there are no specific dates but it is definitely hapenning this year, so I will keep you posted.
More news to follow…thank you for reading, with all my love